Chapter 21: Spice in Buddha’s Pot
Your problem is that you have not been able to accept yourself, to stand on your own feet, to be respectful to yourself, to do something so that you can feel that you have some worth.
Your worth should be within you, not donated by somebody else. A borrowed worth is dangerous; the person can take it back. And this goes on happening in so-called love affairs.
Only an independent person can love and can be loved. And love will not create any problem for him.