Chapter 22: The Forgotten Language of the Heart
That’s why my insistence is: before entering the mysterious world, first silence the mind. Discipline the mind for silence, for no-thinking, so that when you enter the mysterious world the mind does not come in the way, does not raise awkward questions which you cannot answer, and which even if you answer, the mind cannot understand.
Mind has a limited scope. It is a bio-computer. It is not your whole being. The heart is far bigger. And beyond the heart is your being, which is bigger than the heart. And beyond your being is the universal being - which is infinite. To enter into these mysteries you will need a silent mind that does not disturb you.
Lao Tzu described buddha nature to be more like a woman than a man - which makes the story of meeting the buddha on the path and killing him highly suspect.
In other words, suppose I meet her on the path? Osho, this surely spells trouble. Any suggestions?
Milarepa, as far as you are concerned, if a buddha - as a woman - meets you on the way, your job is easier. You are a great ladykiller. So kill her lovingly - what is the problem in it? Lao Tzu has made things very easy for you.
It is true that all great qualities are feminine - love, compassion, sympathy, kindness. All these qualities have a flavor of the feminine.
There are male qualities, qualities of the warrior, courage. They are hard qualities; one has to be like steel. This is because man’s qualities have developed through war, and female qualities have developed at home, in the garden of love, with the husband and children - she has lived in a totally different world. Man has lived continuously fighting. In three thousand years there have been five thousand wars on the earth - as if killing is man’s only profession.
Just the other day, Nirvano showed me a photograph of Ronald Reagan kissing his wife. The way he is kissing her, it looks as if he will kill the woman! That photograph should be enlarged and hung everywhere all over the world - because he looks exactly like a chimpanzee. Even kissing has some violence in it - perhaps it is nuclear kissing.
The world has lived in two parts. Man has made his own world while the woman has lived in a shadow - she has created her own world in the shadow. It is very unfortunate because a man or a woman, to be complete, to be whole, must have all the qualities together. Both men and women should be as soft as a rose petal and as hard as a sword, both together. So whatever the opportunity and whenever the situation demands it. If the situation needs you to be a sword, you are ready; if the situation needs you to be just a rose petal, you are ready. This flexibility between the rose petal and the sword will make your life richer.