So don’t think in terms of categories. Just think about one thing: you must be flowing and letting anything happen. Accept it. If you are going to be a loser, be a loser. If you are going to be defeated, then be one who is defeated. And if you are ready to be defeated, to be a loser, then no one can defeat you, because then the whole thing becomes nonsense. Losing is meaningful because winning is meaningful – because you have a stake in it, because you have made the decision to win. Then losing becomes hard. You feel defeated, frustrated.
So to me, a divine existence means: just flow. If you win, that is good. If you lose, that’s good.