In that disappearance who is going to be attached, and with whom? Everything is. When love blossoms in its totality, everything simply is. The fear of tomorrow does not arise; hence there is no question of attachment, clinging, marriage, of any kind of contract, bondage.
What are your marriages except business contracts? “We commit to each other before a magistrate” – you are insulting love! You are following law, which is the lowest thing in existence and the ugliest. When you bring love to the court you are committing a crime that cannot be forgiven. You make a commitment before a magistrate in a court that “We want to be married and we will remain married. It is our promise, given to the law: we will not separate and we will not deceive each other.” Do you think this is not a great insult of love? Are not you putting law above love?
I am a lawless man; that’s why two dozen countries are against me, although I have never committed any crime. But I don’t believe in any law either.
I love – there is no need for any law.
Law is for those who do not know how to love.
Law is for the blind, not for those who have eyes. Law is for those who have forgotten the language of the heart and only know the language of the mind.
Mirdad’s statement is of such great value that it should be deeply understood – not only intellectually, not only emotionally, but in your totality. Your whole being should drink it:
Love is the only freedom from attachment.
…Because when you love you cannot even think of anything else.
When you love everything you are attached to nothing.
Each moment comes with new splendor, new glory, new songs; each moment brings new dances to dance. Perhaps partners may change, but love remains.
Attachment is the desire that the partner should never change. For that you have to commit to the court, to the society – all stupid formalities. And if you go against those formalities you will lose all respect and honor in the eyes of the people amongst whom you have to live.
Love knows nothing of attachment because love knows no possibility of falling from dignity. It is the very honor itself, the very respectability itself; you cannot do anything against it. I am not saying that partners cannot change, but that it does not matter: if partners change but love remains like a river, flowing, then in fact the world will have much more love than it has today.
Today it is just like a tap – drip, drip, drip. It is not able to quench anybody’s thirst. Love needs to be oceanic, not the drip, drip of a public tap. And all marriages are public.