You may be surprised when I say to you that love makes you desireless, but desire is with discontent. You desire because you don’t have. You desire because you think if you have something it will give you contentment. Desire is out of discontent. When there is love and two centers have met and dissolved and merged, and a new alchemical quality is born, contentment is there. It is as if the whole existence has stopped – no movement. Then the present moment is the only moment. And then you can say: “Ah, this cake is delicious.” Even death doesn’t mean anything to a man who is in love.
So I say to you, love will make you desireless. Be fearless, drop fears, be open. Allow some center to meet the center within you. You will be reborn through it, a new quality of being will be created. This quality of being says: “This is God.” God is not an argument, it is a fulfillment, a feeling of fulfillment. You may have observed that whenever you are discontent you want to deny God. Whenever you are dissatisfied your whole being wants to say: “There is no God.”
Atheism is not out of logic, it is out of discontent. You may rationalize it, that’s another thing. You may not say you are an atheist because you are discontent. You may say: “There is no God and I have got proof.” But that is not the truth. If you are satisfied, suddenly your whole being says: There is God. Suddenly you feel it. The whole existence becomes divine. If love is there you will be really for the first time in the feeling that existence is divine and everything is a blessing. But much has to be done before this can happen. Much has to be destroyed before this can happen. You have to destroy all that creates barriers in you.
Make love a sadhana, an inner discipline. Don’t allow it to be just a frivolous thing. Don’t allow it to be just an occupation of the mind. Don’t allow it to be just a bodily satisfaction. Make it an inner search, and take the other as a help, as a friend.
If you have heard anything about Tantra you will know that Tantra says: If you can find a consort, a friend, a woman or a man, who is ready to move with you toward the inner center, who is ready to move with you to the highest peak of relationship, then this relationship will become meditative. Then through this relationship you will achieve the ultimate relationship. Then the other becomes just a door.
Let me explain it: if you love a person, by and by the periphery of the person disappears first, the form of the person disappears. You come more and more in contact with the formless, the inner. The form becomes, vague by and by, and disappears. And if you go deeper, then even this formless individual starts disappearing and melting. Then the beyond opens. Then that particular individual was just a door, an opening. And through your lover you find the divine.
Because we cannot love, we need so many religious rituals. They are substitutes, and very poor substitutes. A Meera needs no temple to go to; the whole existence is her temple. She can dance before a tree and the tree becomes Krishna. She can sing before a bird and the bird becomes Krishna. She creates her Krishna around her everywhere. Her love is such that wherever she looks the door opens and Krishna is revealed, the beloved is revealed.