And this is not such a big problem. There are bigger problems.
The famous Greek shipowner, Ori Aristotle, was having a house built on a large piece of land in Greece. He said to the architect, “Don’t disturb that tree over there, because directly under that tree is where I had my first love.”
“How sentimental, Mr. Aristotle,” said the architect “Right under that tree?”
“Yes,” continued Ori Aristotle. “And don’t touch that tree over there either, because that is where her mother stood watching while I was having my first love affair.”
“Her mother just stood there while you were screwing her daughter?” asked the architect.
“Yes,” said the Greek shipowner.
“But, Mr. Aristotle, what did her mother say?”
There are greater problems. Your problem is nothing – at least you are attracted to other women, at least to other human beings. Perfectly okay. A little outlandish, but not too serious. Things like that have been happening always. Now people have become more courageous, to ask questions – particularly in the West people have become more honest. Now no Indian will ask such a question – not that things like that are not happening in India. They are happening, but no Indian will have courage enough to ask such a question.
I am happy you asked the question. This is sincerity, this is authenticity. One should be able to expose oneself as one is. The West is becoming freer; the East is very much repressed. And because the East is very much repressed it will take a longer time for the East to get rid of its perversions. The West is going to transcend sooner.
When the Queen had her baby, she was being offered congratulations by hundreds of people when a certain gentleman walked by.
“What do you do for a living?”
“I’m a photographer,” he replied.
“Isn’t that remarkable?” said the Queen. “My brother-in-law is a photographer!”
“Isn’t that remarkable,” he said. “My brother-in-law is a queen.”
Things like that are always happening everywhere. It is part of the human scene. So don’t make much fuss about it, and don’t get disturbed.