When Alice was at the Mad Hatter´s tea party, she noticed that no jam was available. She asked for jam, and the Mad Hatter said, "Jam is served every other day."
Alice protested, "But there was no jam yesterday either!"
"That´s right," said the Mad Hatter. "The rule is: always jam yesterday and jam tomorrow, never jam today...because today is not every other day!"
And that´s how you are living: jam yesterday, jam tomorrow, never jam today. And that´s where jam is! This moment is the only real moment there is. And if you want to have contact with reality, it is herenow!