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Osho Audiobook - Individual Talk: The Rebel, # 30, (mp3) - truth, rebellion, plane


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The Slavery of Marriage

Talk #30 of the Series, The Rebel

"The question that you have asked is really complex. A married man certainly can be a rebel, in fact he has all the reasons to be a rebel. An unmarried man may not even think of rebellion, he may be thinking of getting married; but the married man cannot think of anything else except rebellion, although he only thinks of it.

"The burden of marriage is too much on him: the burden of children, of parents, social responsibility, honor, and prestige – he has too much to risk. Hence he can think very easily about rebellion, but to take an actual step will need great courage. Marriage in fact is a precaution taken by the society so that nobody becomes a rebel, so that nobody becomes an individual.

"Marriage is, in its naked reality, a strategy by the society to keep everybody under control."
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Osho continues:
"And it is such a subtle way that nobody thinks – at least in the beginning – that it is going to be an imprisonment, a lifelong slavery. But marriage has been used by all the societies in the world, in all the ages past, as a psychological imprisonment; putting so much burden and responsibility on every individual that he has to kneel down, and in Zarathustra's words, has to become a camel, a beast of burden.

"Camels don't rebel. On the contrary, the more burden a camel can carry the more precious he becomes. The same is the situation of the married man: the more burden he carries, of the old parents, of the small children, of the wife, the more respectable, the more honored he becomes in the society. These are the ways, invisible chains, that will prevent a man from becoming a rebel.

"But this is only one side. The other side is, if the man has some courage, some intelligence, the very burden, the very imprisonment will become the cause of rebellion. It is just a question of shifting your focus.

"In all the religions, there is a way acceptable to the society: that is of renouncing life and escaping into a monastery or into the mountains…it is an escape, and every escape is cowardly. But the escape is acceptable – not only acceptable but very prestigious. In the name of religion, in the name of searching for truth, the society allows the individual to escape and drop all responsibilities. This is a kind of rebelliousness, but the rebelliousness of the coward.

"The married man has been doing it for centuries. It is part and parcel of the old civilization. It is just a small outlet. All doors should not be closed, otherwise the situation can be too suffocating, and there is a limit to tolerating suffocation. If too many people become antagonistic to the situation it would bring a revolution, a rebellion. Hence every society gives an honorable escape. And nobody has ever counted how many people have suffered from this honorable strategy.

"Thousands of Christian monks, thousands of Buddhist monks, thousands of Jaina monks, thousands of Hindu monks – their total number is in the millions all around the world – have become dropouts, but in a socially acceptable way – religiously, in the name of Jesus Christ, in the name of Gautam Buddha."
In this title, Osho talks on the following topics:

truth… rebellion… plane… imprisonment… peace… rebels… scriptures… sincerity… seeing… rebel

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