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Your Children Are Not Your Children

"You are here with me. In fact, you should make your children understand that this is a great opportunity for you, to be yourself…"

"And tell them not to feel angry at me; rather, bring them to me sometimes. Once in a while, when they have holidays, let them come to me. They will understand me more clearly than you, because they are fresher, younger, closer to nature, yet unspoiled. They are not going to be angry at me.

"Once they start understanding me, they will be proud of you…" Osho

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"If you are really listening to me, your thought processes will cease. If the thought processes continue, you cannot be listening to me. If you are thinking about what I am saying – how to practice it – then you are again missing the present moment."

Osho, The Great Challenge, #12

Your Children Are Not Your Children
Excerpted from: Beyond Psychology, #15

"Everything depends on a very simple understanding. The whole idea that children are your possession is wrong. They are born through you but they do not belong to you. You have a past; they have only future. They are not going to live according to you. To live according to you will be almost equivalent to not living at all. They have to live according to themselves in freedom, in responsibility, in danger, in challenge. That's how one becomes strong.

"Parents down the ages have carried the idea that children belong to them, and that they have to be just carbon copies of them. A carbon copy is not a beautiful thing, and existence does not believe in carbon copies; it rejoices in originality.

"Once you understand that your children do not belong to you that they belong to existence, you have been just a passage you have to be grateful to existence that it has chosen you to be a passage for a few beautiful children. But you are not to interfere in their growth, in their potential. You are not to impose yourself upon them. They are not going to live in the same times, they are not going to face the same problems; they will be part of another world. Don't prepare them for this world, this society, this time, because then you will be creating troubles for them. They will find themselves unfit, unqualified.

"You have to help them to grow beyond you; you have to help them not to imitate you. That is really the duty of the parents to help the children not to fall into imitation. Children are imitative, and naturally, who are they going to imitate? The parents are the closest people. And up to now parents have enjoyed it very much that their children are just like them. The father feels proud because his son is just like him; he should be ashamed that his son is just like him. Then one life is wasted; then his son is not needed he was enough. Because of this wrong conception of pride in children imitating you, we have created a society of imitators.

"One of the most famous Christian books was written by Kempis: Imitation of Christ. It is almost second to The Holy Bible. One great Christian theologian and a world-famous author of many, many treatises, Stanley Jones, used to stay with me whenever he used to come to my city. He was continuously going around the world, and he always kept the book, Imitation of Christ. Once I told him, 'If you really understand, then this book should be burned.'

"To teach anybody to imitate Christ is to destroy that person. One Christ is enough, more than enough. Many, many Christs carrying their crosses on their shoulders would make a very hilarious scene... and everybody proclaiming himself to be the only begotten son of God!

"The word `imitation' has never been condemned, but it should be condemned. The religious founders have been wanting people to imitate them, the parents have been wanting their children to imitate them; the teachers, the professors, the priests everybody is wanting children to imitate them. The children become a mass phenomenon; carbon copies of many people... much ado about nothing!" Osho


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